What will i do? I like a him but that has a girlfriend. But sometimes he's like sweet to me at all.. the next day it feels like nothing happened. I dont know what to do. He acts like he cares (sometime) the more he act like that, the more i fall. But i know its wrong, because he has a girlfriend
Don’t go for it! Any guy who will cheat on his current girlfriend will just cheat on you later. I understand you’ll probably still like him, I mean the heart wants what the heart wants. But, eventually you’ll get a new crush and you’ll be over him!
So I kissed a guy and he ended up being a player and I've never had a bf and I just feel like this is such a bad mistake and I feel like I disrespected myself... Do you think it's a really big mistake?
No, everyone gets played once in a while! We live and we learn don’t beat yourself up. There will be nicer guys I promise!
Hiii, I was just wondering if you can help me. I have a huge crush on my best friend. We see each other everyday at school. In the weekend he comes over to just hang out. I just don't know how to deal with my feelings. Sometimes he is so flirty but sometimes he isn't at all. He even told me that I'm one of his potential partners but I just don't get it! Am I stuck in the friendzone or is there hope?
No way! It sounds like he’s trying to make a move to me? He flirts and says he would potentially be your partner? Maybe he’s just waiting for you to make a move in return!
actually you cant resolve this but btw, i have one problem in one of my legs and it makes me limp and this has always been a joke in my class, and i'm extremely insecure about myself, i love shorts and dresses but i never would wear them
Stop right there! Don’t let other people define how you feel about yourself! If you want to wear a short dress, wear it. Fuck them all. If they already make fun of you what do you have to lose? They already took away some of your dignity with the teasing, don’t let them take away your freedom to act and dress. A limp is so insignificant in comparison to your personality or intelligence. I promise after high school people aren’t such assholes.
I know the feeling! And it’s super hard to get over someone you connected with so well. Often you tend to miss what you use to have together and agonize over the what ifs. You know, what if I had said this or done this, would it have changed things. I know I would do things so differently if knew where I’d be today. But at the same time, you can’t. So as hard as it is, just keep looking to future because theres nothing you can do to change the past. Find a new guy, go out and live life because the best way to forget is to make new memories.
I am kinda shy and don't know how to change it. Do you have any piece of advice?
Start small and work your way up! Make realistic goals! For example say I’m going to start conversation with one person today. Even if its something like asking someone what the date is or saying how warm it is outside or asking how to do your school assignments. Eventually if you keep pushing yourself into talking more it will come more naturally. Just be confident and don’t be afraid to talk to people, I promise you people will not be even half as mean as you image.